PAY IT FORWARD

   PAY IT FORWARD

       Intentional good deeds can it is be called sincere or it was just to show to others that you doing good things? Were the unintentional deeds more sincere. There are types of intentional good deeds; charity, gift giving and donation with a certain amount and had the name of the giver. Unintentional deeds are the action we take on an expected situation. Doing good to others it is not like you take credits for what you done. You want to be praise for what you did. You want an acknowledgement for what you did. This kind of deeds is a very shallow. This kind you only satisfying you own vanity. Your intention whatever you have to others. Not expecting anything in return. This is the sincerest of doing good deeds. Anyone can do charity, gift giving and donation but not anyone can give a helping hand in unexpected situation. Karma was everywhere. Whatever we did to anyone it will always come back to you will receive bad and evil too. We are reaping what we sow. Maybe not instant but when the time goes by. Doing good deeds can be a part of our daily habit, maybe we don’t notice. Good deeds are not always about money you give. Sometimes a small act of kindness makes big difference.

       One time my father asked me to list the good deeds I’ve done. Then I come to think of it. Then I told him I don’t do good deeds. I never called it good deeds, but I called it “pay it forward.”  I always do things with heart and not thinking what I will receive in return. We can give without expecting in return. In my whole life experience specially when I see the person I helped before doing things that once I done for them. Then when I met someone and say “oh, it was you. I hear so much about you”. It was really a nice feeling that someone share their story and know they learn from you and others are learn from them too. Simple kindness can change someone life and your own life too. Sometimes a simple thank you from the person we help was enough. Be an angel to others. Then it’s become a cycle. 

       It was act of kindness in a needed situation. We cannot help all, but we must not choose who will we help. A simply help like helping an elderly person to cross the street. Sharing sits and food even a bit of your time to listen to their stories. Lending shoulder to others to cry on. Even a simply hug and touch of hand was enough to give someone comfort. Sometimes being there for them was enough. Paying forward, sometimes in the time of our own needs someone will help us too the same as we help others. Paying forward was like collecting good karma. But don’t help without a sincere heart. When helping we cannot expect anything from the person we help. If they help others too it’s a blessing for us too. The universe will give back to you whatever you give. People will feel if you are sincere towards them. People feel our sincerity. If people love you even if you have nothing to offer that means they saw your sincerity towards them.

“THE KINDNESS YOU PUT INTO THIS WORLD WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO YOU”