SELF ENRICHMENT

 SELF ENRICHMENT     

        Most of the success mentors they have their own success guidelines that their share every time they conduct seminar or mentoring. They have different approach but if we really understand what they saying you will realize that it was almost the same on each other. So here are my own success guidelines or principles base on what I learn from them.

1. TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR LIFE – it is “YOU” who creates the quality of the life you lead and the result you produce. Your own life was your own responsibility.  Give up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can’t and why you haven’t up until now. You have to the position that you are always had the power to make different, to get it right to produce the desire results. Everything you think, say and do needs become intentional and aligned with your purpose, your value and your goals.

2. DECIDE WHAT YOU REALLY WANTS – ask your heart what you really want, what you really desire. Be specific of what you want. Know your life purpose. Make a list of all the things you want, to have, want to become. Visualize what destination want to go in this journey. It is not necessary to know exactly how to get there. All that matters is that you figure out where is and what is it.


3. GOAL SETTING – once you know your life purpose, determine your vision and clarify what your time needs and desire are you have to convent, them into specific, measurable goals and objectives and then act on them. Be specific as possible with all the aspect of your goals remember vague goals produce vague results. Create a realistic action plan that will get you from where you are to where you want to go. Mind mapping is a simple but powerful process for creating a detailed to do list for achieving your goal. It let you determine what information you’ll need to gather, who will you need to take, need to earn or raise, which deadlines you’ll need to meet and so on. It’s created momentum and builds your confidence both of which move you farther and faster towards your goals.

4. SEEK FOR MENTORS TO BE A STUDENT— if you want to be successful you have to starts hanging out with more successful people. Adopt what they doing, reading, thinking. Ask them, work with them. Surround yourself with people who will build you up. You need to ask them to share their success strategies with you. Then try them on and see if they fit for you. Experiment with doing what they do, reading what they read, think the way they think and so on. If the new ways of thinking and behaving works adopt them. If not, drop them and keep looking and experimenting.


5. RELEASE THE BREAK AND TAKE ACTION – there is no perfect timing to start just jump in and get started. You can’t do everything at once, but you can begin. As long as you actively in motion in the pursuit of your goal you will create processional effect that will turn out to be far more important than you initially were capable of understanding or intending. You just to begin of and the path of opportunities keep unfolding in front and to the side of you. They all started with a dream and a plan but once they started, things unfolded in unexpected ways. Just be ready, aim and fire.

6. F O C U S [Follow One Course Until Successful] – everyone had a core genius inside of us. Sometime things you love to do so well that you hardly feel like charging people for it. Successful people believe this too. That’s why they put their core genius first. They focus on it and delegate everything else to other people on their team. If failure or road blocks come along just stay focus and make necessary adjustment.

7. GET USED TO REJECTION – if you want to be successful you should learn how to deal and handle rejection. Rejection is a natural part of life. Failure and rejection are essential to learning love rejection and learn from it. If you been rejected that’s a good thing. It’s only means you are taking action for the things you want.

8. DON’T COMPLAIN SEEK OPPORTUNITIES – if all things seem to be wrong and failing don’t complain find solutions. The more you begin to look for good the sooner and more often you will find it. Always for the brighter side. Later you will realize that it was a blessing in disguise. Remember “NO” means NEXT OPPORTUNITIES. Take every opportunity you see. Cause opportunity comes in unexpected place, person and situation. Be open for new ideas.

9. AVOID THE DREAM STEALLERS/ LITTLE MAN – there are the toxic and negative people. This kind of people are the one who will hold you back their victim mentality and mediocre standards. Better avoid them in all cost. Don’t let other people be little you. No one can tell what you can and what you cannot do. You know yourself better than anyone else. That is your life no one can ever dictate on the things you need to do. You’re the master of your own life.

10. CHANGE YOURSELF – if you want to be successful you must change yourself first. Improve yourself. You must believe in yourself. Change the way to talk and think.  Have confidence in everything you do. Change your behaviou and your personal appearance

11. DON’T QUIT/ NEVER EVER GIVE UP – you will never be successful if you quit or give up. Remember quitters never win. Never stop until you are successful already. Whatever roadblocks or hindrance you may face just continue moving forward.  If you facing obstacles there are many numbers of ways that works but you will find them only if you spend time looking for them. Always be a solution – oriented in your thinking. Preserve until you find a way that work than to give or quit.

12. HAVE SELF INTEGRITY – build trust to people. If you are a team leader show them that you can be trusted. Show them that you are not the kind of people who will run in time of difficulties. You must be set by an example to them. Trust and respect are two things that give strength in one organization.  Act what you believe was right.


13. DO LEVERAGING/ MANAGE YOUR TIME – every hour is precious don’t waste any minute of it. Learn to delegate task to everyone in the team. Multiply your time through others. Make plan and schedule so all things you need to do will be accomplish. Prepare ahead so you can easily make adjustment when something not necessary come up. Prepare ahead so you will not be in a rush.

14. HELP OTHER FIRST – helping others is another key to success. Helping others through motivating them, teaching them. If they learn they can teach also to others. You cannot consider you are successful if you cannot help others to change their life first. Sometimes simple guidance is really appreciated. Helping others doesn’t always mean money. Giving money is just a temporary help only. Better teach them to catch fish than to just give them the fish. If you really want to help others do the things that they can do for the long term not just for temporary only. Must help with the heart. Be sincere in helping others.

15. ENJOY YOUR LIFE – while doing all your goals and plans you must enjoy it. If you not enjoying whatever you doing that’s mean you will not be going to succeed. You’re not in the right path. If you are enjoying what you doing whatever obstacle, roadblocks you face it will be easy for you to solve. That also mean you’re on the right path, right track of your dreams. You must have the passion on what you’re doing. Always be grateful on everything you will accomplish. Whatever you will become always put your feet on the ground. Stay humble and always share your blessings.


REMINDER:
“Appreciate the many things that make your life so valuable”.
“Trust can be destroyed faster than it can be built”.
“Keep your eyes on the stars and your feet on the ground”.
“One line of wisdom can change your life more than volume of books”.
“Think positively   and good things will happen”.
“Being tired is just a state of mind”.
“It takes a lot of courage to stick up for something you believe in”.
“Read for inspiration”.