THE ART OF THINKING CLEARLY

                  

                                              
     THE ART OF THINKING CLEARLY

      All the things happen in your life is all about “YOU”. The way you act, the things you do. You cannot blame others in your failure. Your life is your own responsibility. All your success and failure are all result of the things you do. Stop complaining in every failure you encounter; that’s the result of your own action.
      Don’t be afraid to do the difference. Take the risk to try something new! The thought you think, the image you visualize and the action you take or our behaviour are the things we can control in our life. Think, visualize and action. What thing you do will come back to you, “KARMA”. Do good things, good things will come back to you same as when we do bad things, will come back the same thing also. What you reap is what you sow.
      Give up your old habit that stopping you to reach your goal. If you failed don’t do again the same mistake you do so that your result will not be the same again. Learn from your own mistake. Make an adjustment. Don’t be afraid to do something new. It’s a matter of choice you make. Don’t stick on your current behaviours. If you want success change yourself first. The way you think, visualize and action.
      Success cannot happen overnight it is a process. But one thing it will start if you give of commitment. Take responsibility of everything you do. Don’t blame others on the result you are receiving. Asked yourself what you doing? Don’t duel on the past. Avoid negative thoughts. Change your behaviours. Don’t do the same mistake that others do. Pay attention on what you doing. Destiny is not a matter of chance it is a matter of choice. Understand your action.
     Know what your heart really desire. What you want to do? What you really love? Find your purpose in this world. What makes you happy and enjoy the most. What things you really want to do, to achieve, to have? What you want to become? Do not put yourself on hold. Take the first step of the journey of a thousand miles, know your purpose in life to keep you on track. Decide what you want. Asked your heart, know your own “DEEPEST WHY”. Make a list of the things you want to do and achieve. Some called it “BUCKET LIST”.
      Know the thing you want. Move forward, set your goal. Asked yourself, are you doing the right thing to achieve your goal, your dream. Clear your mind and focus. Don’t make limitations on yourself.  Think big, dream big. Impossible only acknowledge if we limit our possibility. You are the captain of your own life. Don’t let other people dictates what you need to do. Do the things you really want, what you really love.  Don’t listen to the dream-stealers, follow your own dreams. Follow what inside your heart. It’s your life not them. Avoid the negative people they cannot help you.
      Imagine all the things you want. Feel it. Visualize your future. Manifest all aspect of your vision. Let the Universe know what you want, what you desire. Use the “LAW OF ATTRACTION”. Don’t afraid to tell your vision. You can never arrive at your final destination without taking a first step. What you think is what will happened. Unleash your potential. Erase negative thought you have. Be positive all the time. Be the master of your own thought.
      Just believe in yourself. Don’t quit. Quitters never win. Don’t be little, be big. Don’t think down, always think up. Believe that you are born for greatness. Never give up on what you really want to do. Believe in yourself. No matter how hard you went through never ever give up. Have self-confidence. Declared what you want.


Do whatever it takes to achieve your goal. Don’t give limit to yourself, you can do anything and everything you want. Right attitude is required. Except wonderful things to happen. Don’t use the word “I CAN’T” it makes you weaker. Always says “I CAN”. Don’t limit your ability, don’t limit yourself. Everything is possible. Put a positive spin on your every thought you have. What you think is what you become.  Except the best and you’ll get it.
        Mind your own business. Decide what you really want, do your goal and what you desire. Do it with passion. No one will think about us at all except ourselves. You are the master of your own dreams. You are creator of your life you want to be. You and no one else can decide of your own. Do all the things that will help you to achieve your goals, dreams and desires. Don’t waste your time on worrying on what other people will think about your ideas, goals, desires and dreams.
       Sometimes terrible things happened but don’t look on the negative sides, but look it in different sides. Sometimes it is the blessing in disguise. When God take away something He will replace it something better which is the best for us. The more you begin to look for the good, the sooner and more often you will find it.  Always look at the brighter side.
       Whatever negative of failure you experience don’t look as it’s a tragedy but see it as an opportunity. An opportunity to know yourself better and know God. Be compassionate, humble and do worship with God. Only God we can depend all the time. Everyone and everything that show up in our life has a reason. Everything happened to us have a reason, the people that come and go in our life have purpose, some will test our will to continue. No matter how difficult or challenging comes your way learn, grow and don’t ever give up. Take every opportunity you see, because opportunity comes in unexpected places, person and situation.
     God always knows what is best of us. He has His own timing. We must know our purpose. Always have a good heart to accept all the things happened to us. Bad things happen for a reason. It teaches us lesson in life, made us stronger, make us ready for everything. Good thing happened when God knows we are ready to handle what He wants for us. Don’t hold on, on something that already gone. Empty your hand so that when God shower His blessing you can catch and hold yours. Just keep on moving forward. Always look negative happen into the positive sides. Everything has its own reasons.
      Pursue your goal with passion, break through every possible opportunity to achieved your goal. Included every possible detailed. Be an architect of your own life. Be the matter of your own life. Design your own life. Imagine yourself that you already achieve your goal.  What does it feel? Always take your goal list with you, re-read it every time. Say it loud, with passion and enthusiasm. Imagine and feel it. Make a vision board. Make an achievable goal. Learn to deal with all roadblocks and fear that you will encounter. Listen and understanding things. Don’t over analyze, it makes you paralyzed.
      Be a do it now person. Always make a plan. Go out from your comfort zone. Don’t limit yourself. Learn to go beyond your comfort zone. Don’t afraid to do something new. Don’t do same thing if you failed. Don’t stuck in one way. Don’t reinforcing. Change your behaviour, your action. You must be focus. Try something new that's the first step to get out from your comfort zone.
      Sometimes you just need to close your eyes and see your goals are already complete. Make the images as clear and bright as possible. The more passion, excitement and energy you can master, the powerful will be the ultimate result. That’s the way send the message to Universe, Law of Attraction. Start acting what you want to be. Start now and be what you want to be then do the action that go along with being that person.  Get up and started. Do what you need to be done. Have self-confidence. Show that you are serious in your intension. If you can’t do, others will do. Keep your dreams alive. Let go of fears.  Don’t holding yourself back. Just do it. Believe that you are worthy of achieving your goal.



Start your engine and get started. It is always perfect time to do anything. Get in. take the necessary action. Have a right mindset. Don’t be afraid if you some mistake. Mistake are just opportunity for learning something new. What we learn from those mistakes is much more important. Keep learning from it and do not do the same mistake again and again. Let those mistake help to improve “YOU”. Don’t let it be hindrance to your success.
      Believe in your dreams. Acknowledge the fear but don’t let fear stop you from doing what you want to do. Fear is a self-created. So don’t create your own fear. Don’t think negative.  Face your fear. All new things are little bit scary. Go with the flow and enjoy the experience. Just keep positive, always look for the next opportunity that will come.
      Don’t afraid to ask. Don’t assume anything. Don’t reject your own self by thinking they will say “NO”, you may look foolish or stupid. Have courage to do thing by simply asking. Remember “NO” also means “NEXT OPPORTUNITY”. To be successful   you have to risk and one of the risked is willingness to risk rejection. Embrace rejection. Love them, the more rejection you encounter, the way to success come nearer. Don’t let rejection put you down. Rejection is a natural part of life. Deal with it. Conquer your fear. Don’t stop. Keep on moving forward. Take action and you’re getting there, when you doing the right thing.
     Don’t take negative feedbacks. Just keep on improving yourself, improve what you doing. Respect other people opinion. Don’t let other people stop you to do the things you want to do. Negative feedbacks doesn’t matter. Let it be your guidelines. Keep improving yourself. Do one step at a time. Keep practicing. Every thousand step you make it always starts with a single step.
      Never ever give up. Quitters never win. Make a stepping stone out of the stumbling block. If you want to be something/somebody act like you are. Surround yourself with successful people. Adopt what they doing, reading, thinking, ask them, work with them. Surround yourself with people who will build you up. Avoid negative people. Fix the things that irritate you, annoyed you and the things keep bothering you. Organize your things. Be conscious on your habit. Always do the positive things. Develop positive habit and drop off all your negative habits.
      Dare to take chances. Be a do it now person. Open up to new ideas. You can never arrive at your final destination without taking the first step. There is no perfect timing to start. Just jump in and get started. Success is a process. Make commitment to start. Get started whatever your goal and dreams.
      You and you alone are responsible for taking the actions to create the life of your dreams. Nobody else can do it for you. If you just aim in the direction you want to go, start and keep moving forward. All kind of unforeseen opportunities will grow out of that forward motion. As long as you are actively in motion in the pursuit of your goals, you will create processional effects that will turn out to be for more important than you initially we’re capable of understanding or intending. You just begin, the path of opportunities just keeps unfolding in front of you and to the side of you. Dream, plan and ger started are things unfolded in unexpected ways.



MASTER KEY TO SUCCESS

      Life is easier when you believe in yourself. Self-belief is the feeling good enough. It’s the feeling you can handle what life throw at you. It’s a healthy appreciation of your talents, characteristic and abilities.
      Love you self and other will follow. Being sexy is come from being confident. Focus on what’s great about you. Life is a confidence trick. Real confidence is the unshakeable conviction that the world is unfolding to your advantage and that you can handle anything that life throws at you, that you’ll always find a way through because there’s always a way and you’ll find it.
      Beware of the relationship between your thoughts and how you behave. If you constantly be little or tell yourself you are not good enough, you’ll start behaving in a way that reinforce that thought pattern. But if you tell yourself that you are talented and special, you behave in a way that fulfil this belief.
      There are two types of people. One has defeated looks, the life has taken its toll and sunk under the weight of it all. Another type is the undefeated looks, they look fresh. They refuse to give up.
      Life is a spin. It’s a matter of attitude. Believe that everyday contains past in future lives. You don’t control anything. Take everything as a miracle. Nothing can guarantee you are going to see another sunrise.
      Emotional support not pressure is the key low expectation leads to low self-esteem and low achievement; the opposite is also true. It is not cool or clever to fail. Don’t let other people pull you down. You can believe everything you want. Whatever you choose to believe will be true to you in your life because that’s the view that you’ll feed and cleave to so its best to be clear what you want to be right about because that will shape your experience of life and your opinion in “YOU”.
      The most important influence in your life is “YOU”. Enhancing your self-belief begin with a decision, the decision to reappraise your view of yourself, so that you will enjoy the advantage of exceptional self-belief. Know in your heart   that you are far bigger than anything that can happen to you.
      You are the thinker of your own thoughts. You have ultimate responsibility the final says in defining who you are and how is your life is. Take full ownership of your attitude and mental approach to life. You have sole responsibility you choosing your purpose, to any and every situation in your life, past, present and future. It’s entirely up to you to assign meaning and significance to event and circumstances.
       People can hurt each other no matter how much love they share. The reason why people blame someone because they feel they have no choice. They see themselves as victim. But that’s not true. We always have the choice. Stop stuck and complaining is a choice in itself.
      True love is a wonderful thing but so is self-sufficiency and independence. Bring self-valiant is something to be salute not despaired. Instead of endlessly dwelling on negative images from the past and reliving moments when things went wrong change your focus and recall the good times instead. Experience the sense of pleasure which come from a memory of wonderful times and your spirit will lift. Count your blessing instead of burdens. Happiness is often a choice about how you respond to a given event, so choose your response carefully.

Calming the mind is a habit we can all develop we can develop. Be thankful of all the things you love.  Develop gratitude. Your attitude is revealed in your choice of words. Build yourself up with words of encouragement, patience and inspirations. Avoid knocking yourself with defeatist or demeaning messages. Adopt an attitude of gratitude toward yourself.  Avoid dwelling on what you don’t have. Appreciate what you already have will you add and improve you a lot. Choose something that you’ve been talking about, thinking about.  Take responsibility to make it happen. Take the first step. You’re a doer. You take responsibility. Right attitude, right action.
      Treat yourself with dignity and proceed to move towards your fullest expression and highest potentials knowing that you are the authority over “YOU”. Go beyond what you think you can do. Believe that anything is attainable. Expect the best.   Be optimistic. In any area of life, you don’t know how good you are until you meet a big enough challenge. Never say “I CAN’T”, it’s impossible. Aim to achieve. Don’t think that you can’t achieve your goal. Think about every step along the path to achieving that goal. The moment you really commit is when things start to happen.  Create some urgency about your goal so you feel sufficiently compelled to dig a little deeper. Impossible is an opinion.
      Two most important rules on how to become successful are that you have to enjoy what you’re doing because if you don’t, you’ll never be successful. And number two is that you can never give up or quit. If there is a concrete wall ahead of you, you have to go through it.     
  Holding on to your self-belief is easy when things are going well. But everyone, of us had our fair share to testing defeats, disappointed, criticism. No one gets a totally easy life. It only differs in how we handle it.
       Realize that failure not need to be end of your dreams. Never see failure as a defeat or something that make you permanently.  Develop the “rebound personality”. Rebound personalities are renewed, even inspired by failure. You need to know how to put yourself back together again. You need to be able to dig deeper into yourself to emerge stronger clearer and better than ever.
      Crisis will never leave you where it finds you. You’ll be weakened or strengthen by it. Your interpretation on what happen is possess the greatest treat. Your greatest ally or most powerful enemy is one and the same person.  “YOURSELF”.
      When life is at it’s toughest, you can turn the gun on yourself often called shooting yourself in the foot, or you can rise up to your full power, get into the right frame of mind and resolve, not to be beaten, least of all by yourself.  A crisis always hands you with choices.
      Don’t let anybody tell you that you can’t do this on that.  You get an opportunity you grit your teeth and who knows it might come off. Let go of fear. So much is possible when fear no longer holds us captive. If you tackle your secret passions, you will not face regret of a life half lived. We all have our dreams. Life is over sooner than we think. Deep inside us there is someone we we’re meant to be.
      When the going gets tough, you need to think fast, regroup and recover. You need a strategy, a back up plan. A successful person is somebody who goes from one failure to another without any loss of enthusiasm. Speed up your recovery. Even on everyday things, pay attentions and handle upsets quickly. Resolve and move on. Scan yourself to spot any lingering limitations on going slights that you may be carrying within yourself.  By all means, make connections between then and now, the event circumstances that you have used to undermine you. Let it go. You may well have acted less than brilliantly on reflection. Grasp this and all the start lessons. Then let it go. Make your peace with yourself. Otherwise, you’re not set on course to undermine yourself from here on in.

      Handle criticism. Sometimes other people have a point. If you feel you need to make amends do so.  But do move on. Seal yourself up. Don’t allow your power to gush out of you in recrimination. Don’t dumb down. Check whether you’re resigned yourself to smaller aspirations more modest ambitions based on your experience or your interpretations of those experience. Wash off the experience and get ready to move on.
      The future belongs to those who believe in the possibility of their dreams. Upgrade your opinion of yourself. Building and maintaining powerful self-belief is a choice. The fear and self-doubt that hold you have a little power over you. You have far greater self- knowledge and self-control. You know how to handle yourself it also called “self-management”.
      Yourself assurance has grown. Use it to ensure you never undersell yourself. It’s your powerful tool to get the best possible life for yourself. What you think, you create. Confirm your strongest beliefs about yourself. Your thought, which you are responsible for, are reals as your deeds. Realize that every word and all deeds affect your life.
       Always listen to your inner voice. It’s important to do good. Letting go of anger and hate is the key to staying young. We all need meaning in our lives. Without it we are just fidgeting until we die.
      The absence of courage causes more suffering than can ever be calculated. Do your best and being your best keep that firmly in mind, specially when you are ready need to.  Remember that to be successful in life, there has to be failure.  Just keep on trying.  See the failure as the result of mistake that have made. Don’t blame yourself. Sometimes your ideas are ahead of time or you haven’t got your marketing or location right, but whenever the truth, it’s right next time. Don’t let failure or the fear of its hold you. Break free from this way of thinking and you’ll be a lot lighter on your feet as a result. Some defeats are only instalment to victory. Falling is a part of learning. Believe in what you can become. Live your affirmation.
       The door to success is always marked “PUSH”. Move forward. Don’t set up boundaries for yourself. Trust your instincts and crazy ideas.  Your will is always within your power. The willingness to do create the ability to do.



“If you think you can do it
You can
If you believe you can do it
You will
If you trust you can do it
You will make the difference”